{"id":17553,"date":"2026-11-14T08:15:55","date_gmt":"2026-11-14T08:15:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/globalnigerianews.com\/index.php\/2026\/11\/14\/do-you-think-your-woman-is-having-an-affair\/"},"modified":"2026-11-14T08:15:55","modified_gmt":"2026-11-14T08:15:55","slug":"do-you-think-your-woman-is-having-an-affair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/globalnigerianews.com\/index.php\/2026\/11\/14\/do-you-think-your-woman-is-having-an-affair\/","title":{"rendered":"Do you think your woman is having an affair?"},"content":{"rendered":"
\"Do<\/p>\n

By Bunmi Sofola<\/strong><\/p>\n

Here, a marriage counselor who has spent 16 years sifting through the ruins of other people\u2019s relationships, gives his analysis of how a partnership can lose its way, and a few suggestions for not letting it happen.<\/p>\n

(a) Signs she is having an affair<\/strong><\/h4>\n
Look for a sudden short-term drop-off sex:<\/h5>\n

Everyone has appetites \u2013 exactly where is she satisfying hers? <\/p>\n

Radically different sexual behavior:<\/h5>\n

If she suddenly starts suggesting things he hasn\u2019t done before, or doing things every differently even if it\u2019s better, where is she getting the ideas from? <\/p>\n

Sudden increase in working hours:<\/h5>\n

This can easily be innocent, but where\u2019s the extra cash? (You might never know if lover boy is giving her over-time pay!) <\/p>\n

Sexually transmitted infections:<\/h5>\n

Towels and toilet seat explanations simply aren\u2019t good enough.<\/p>\n

(b) Things she is getting from an affair that she is not getting at home<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Excitement that is the main thing. Having a secret life. If you are clever enough, your marriage should be her secret life!<\/p>\n

(c) Full time attention<\/strong><\/h4>\n

He is trying harder than you. Usually a stop up, someone better than the husband in at least one respect \u2013 looks, money, youth.<\/p>\n

(d) Mistakes husbands make<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Not adjusting to the fact that you are married. Like it or not, you are now part of a double act, and you can\u2019t carry on as if nothing\u2019s happened. Women like to see visible signs of commitment, so cut down on after work drinks with the boys.<\/p>\n

(e) Getting Fat<\/strong><\/h4>\n

It sounds harsh, but there are a lot of thin guys out there who\u2019ll be trying if on your wife. <\/p>\n

(f)Taking her for granted<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Undervaluing her, expecting her to be there and expecting her not to get suspicious when you\u2019re having affairs.<\/p>\n

(f) Over-working<\/strong><\/h4>\n

A lot of high-achieving guys drive themselves hard often thinking it is for sake of their wives or family. But putting in excessive hours to generate your wealth just provides her with motive, means and opportunity for adultery.<\/p>\n

However, painful, there comes a time when a marriage is beyond repair, continues the counselor. According to him, Violence is not a good sign\u201d. <\/p>\n

Some relationships survive it, but it\u2019s always a black mark, never to be forgotten. It happens to the men more than you\u2019d think; big, strong men sometimes, they just don\u2019t defend themselves against their violent wives.<\/p>\n

(g) Child Abuse<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Again mainly perpetrated by men, but occasionally women. \u201cIf she\u2019s with someone clearly out of your league. If she\u2019s that ruthlessly upwardly mobile, you\u2019ve had it. \u201cIf addictions are involved: Gambling, drinking, drugs, whatever, it blocks everything else out and people get pushed away past their limits \u2026<\/p>\n

Finally, you\u2019re to remember that when your relationship is threatened, you must spend more time away from the environment.<\/p>\n

Vanguard News<\/a><\/p>\n

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